Tuesday, November 27, 2012

Social Networking - The Solution - Continued


So like I ended my last post about making our weaknesses stronger, it is the same concept with how we should approach situations such as suicide and bullying. We need to recognize it faster and make others self-aware of this issue. You see, we try to ignore and forget about the little things that bother us and move on and we have spread that concept too far over time. An example would be if we are getting bullied, we are told as children to simply ignore these kinds of things, but are we told why? Why is it that ignoring something that can increase in magnitude depending on the person be simply ignored? These are questions that need to be talked about in classrooms.

As high schools become more and more lenient on the devices we are allowed to bring with us into the classroom, it allows students to be brought in more information faster than ordinary causing more possible problems. People tend to notice and point out problems quicker and faster nowadays, but are parents able to acknowledge the same things our kids are seeing in everyday school?

I know this also seems quite random but don’t worry, it all comes together just keep reading damnit! Schools have the most power over your child’s psychological life in my opinion. As a child, you have most of your social interactions with others in school such as school activities, classroom interactions, and sports. Now I am not saying we should have our parents checking up on us using Facebook all the time, but parents should definitely have a strong bond with their kids so that they do not feel alone, parents should become aware of what their kids are doing, who they are talking to, and what kind of activities they are participating in. I also believe everyone should have a psychologist. Personally, being able to vent to someone is always a good piece, but being able to vent to a professional about your problems and getting advice is even better, but some people are not that fortunate to have such help. It comes down to the parents to talking to their children and keeping their minds healthy. But overall, none of these solutions seem to be really needed. In fact, cyber bullying awareness is increasing just as fast as computer advances. I hope this information was helpful and interesting to read about. All I ask is that you keep the idea that social networking is a huge benefit to our society because it gives us a better look into someone else’s life, helps with security risks, and can help us get notified of others emotional problems, allowing us to take action upon all of these things is one less thing we have to worry about in society.

5 comments:

  1. David,
    I agree with what you've said in your post. I also believe that school impacts kids in a huge way because of social interaction and social media cites have become very popular and common that they also affect kids. Cyber bullying is very easy for someone to do because they can hide behind their computer screen while making accusations or say whatever mean thing comes to their mind. Social media is so influential that it affects a child's mood and how they think about themselves. Do you think that schools should be responsible for social media posts that are cyber bullying students within their school? At my high school I knew of one student who printed off what was being said online that was cyber bullying and the school took action and suspended the teen for his behavior. Do you think that is fair?

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  2. I personally believe that is not fair, it comes down to responsibility of the person using the website, kids need to understand that the internet is a very open place where everyone can say what they wish. I honestly think the school should not have gotten involved unless it came down to sexual harassment or something as severe

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  3. I agree that school plays a major part in a child's life, especially in developing their communication skills. I also believe that social networking plays a big part of this as well. Cyber bullying can cause a child to turn away from others in real life, and it also can cause low selfesteem and self worth.
    I also believe that technology and social networking can cause a person to lose their communication skills. Think about it, how often do you text or use a social networking site to interact with people? On the other hand, how often do you call somebody or just show up to meet them as opposed to just texting them?

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  4. David,
    I agree with everything you said in your post. I would say that kids do tend to hide behind computers, and they do say things that they would never say face-to-face. (Like your "damnit" in this post) Have a good night!
    --Jamie Weldy

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  5. David-
    You're exactly right when you say children/teens should have an strong relationship with their parents. Speaking from experience, if I had been more open with my parents about my ex harassing me on facebook maybe the situation would have been different. Parents are a great source of guidance, we should learn to go to them more often.

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